If you are still getting used to that Kindle you got for Christmas, here is your chance to practice downloading books.  For anyone planning their escape from the 9 to 5 or just anyone at all,  there is a must read book - The Flinch.  It’s absolutely free, but I’m sure you will find it has immense value in your life.   The Flinch is about that fear based reaction that all of us have when faced with situations that we are afraid of.  What would be a 2 minute conversation for most people is dissected in great deal, giving a new level of clarity to the seemingly unchangeable reactions we have to our world.  If you have hit the wall, are looking for alternatives, or just want a good read, The Flinch lets you explore how you deal with the world, and is destined to change it in the process.

While Marc was looking for a job along with 13% of America that year, he also got to spend a lot of time working on his personal hobby: a food blog called NoRecipes.com.  His site sounds like a food contradiction, but it is really about the traditions, techniques and ingredients of a particular dish and not an exact combination of measurements.   “I met lots of interesting folks through the blog including some people who made a living off their blogs and related lines of business. As my blog grew I felt like Id finally found that dream job. The problem was, it was still too early and having lived off savings in New York City for nearly a year, I decided to take a full time job towards the end of the year”.

Last year he reached the point where he was turning down food writing and photography gigs because there simple wasn’t enough hours in the day to do the regular 9 to 5 and take on all the leads he had gotten through the blog. “The time felt right, I quit my job, and there are no regrets so far”.  It was a tough leap of faith given he still wasn’t getting enough business to pay all the bills, but Marc says, “it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made”.

Marc thinks escaping a 9 to 5 is less about taking classes or reading books and more about finding that passion that drives you to do whatever it takes to make it work.  He now enjoys the freedom to work from where ever he is in the world.  His food blog has taken him all over the world and has spawned a second web site http://wanderingcook.com.  Marc is engaging in what he calls a “delicious adventure, tasting his way around the world”.   Anthony Bourdain may have some competition on the horizon.

One of Marc’s challenges in escaping the 9 to 5 is that he doesn’t see himself as a salesman.  ”I’ve never enjoyed sales, but part of freelancing is selling your services. One of the things I’ve learned is that leads come from the most unexpected places”. As a writer he often get pitched products and services to try by marketing agencies. They’re often cookie cutter press releases and can become tiresome. One day he got a little fed up with the generic pitches and tried pitching the services back at the agency that sent the email. That email turned into a paying gig.

Marc cautions potential escapees to not sell themselves short.  This was a tough lesson for him when he first left the corporate world.  ”When I first started out I was up till 3am every morning because I took every job that came my way regardless of how low the wage was”. It didn’t leave me much time to enjoy his new found freedom and it took time and focus away from projects that actually paid a descent wage. “It’s hard to say no to work especially at first, but it’s important to know when to start saying no”.

Marc summarizes his approach to life  as “seizing the day”  (even if it is an overused phrase).  ”So many of us spend days that turn into months that turn into years at jobs we’re not passionate about dreaming about someday going off on our own. During that time, life happens and we can never quite get to a place where we’re comfortable leaving a stable job to follow a dream. I think the key to leaving a 9 to 5 is to stop chasing the dream and start living it. It may be hard at first, the obstacles may even seem unsurmoutable, but if you dedicate yourself to it, and live for today, tomorrow always seems to work itself out”.  Sounds like a perfect recipe to me.

Check out Marc’s adventures at:

http://norecipes.com
http://wanderingcook.com
Twitter: @norecipes

She went to undergraduate school at the University of Rochester and graduate school at the University of Virginia. Upon graduation, her goal was executive engineering management. “There was a visiting professor from IBM at UVA and he convinced me that IBM would be an excellent place to start my career”.  In her years at IBM, she worked in three locations developing products from financial software to multi-processor computer systems to components.

“Upon reflection, my years at IBM were well worth it.  I gained expertise in a wide range of business functions. Still, a few moments at IBM made it clear that IBM was not the company for me.”  The first was when she worked for an executive manager in the midst of accelerating his corporate career through extreme political maneuverings. Cynthia knew she was more of a performance oriented person, and far less of an office politician.  This was the game to be played for big company success and she couldn’t see herself engaging in such extreme politics.

Next, there was a series of human resource meetings; one was the annual salary survey and the other retirement planning. She just couldn’t figure it out. The salary meeting showed compensations were less than the market averages. At the same time, the retirement planning meeting showed after working for the company for 30 years, the pension would only provide a small percentage of the funds needed to maintain an employee’s standard of living.  “I remember thinking, if you get paid less than average then how can you save enough to make up the difference by retirement?”

The final straw was when her product line was re-organized under a new division. As the person responsible for strategic product planning and representing the product line with the new division, it was clear that the new division had no interest in her group. “My group was unwanted and placed on hold until its fate could be determined.  I knew the group would be disbanded. It was only a matter of time.”

At that point, she knew this couldn’t be her career direction. It didn’t make sense and it wasn’t compatible with her talents and personality.

“I convinced eight other IBMers to join me in a new venture.  The key architect and I spent more than six months contacting companies and flying around the country looking for funding.”  The team knew digital video, a hot commodity as it was the early days of the MPEG technology.  Cynthia contacted the President of Micron Computer and one day received a phone call from him. He told her that although Micron wasn’t interested, he had mentioned our proposal to the president of another tech company, and they were interested. “Here was the chance occurrence that got us the deal. I’ve learned how fortuitous happenings can have a big impact on success, which is why networking is so important to start-ups.”

“A few lessons stand out in my mind about this effort. One was how much every person contacted placed on what the team had done.  Everyone wanted to know what successful products in the market place specific team members had worked on and how they had contributed to the product’s success.  This was beyond listing professional accomplishments; it was about being part of a winning team.  A second lesson was the emphasis on the make-up of the team. I had put together the right team with management, marketing and engineering experience in the advent of an emerging technology.  It was beginner’s luck.”

Eventually the startup settled Cynthia back into role of an employee as General Manager for an established corporation—a routine, mundane, 9-5 position.  She missed the challenge of creating something from nothing. So once again she headed off and co-founded another venture. This time it was a fabless semiconductor company producing low-cost components.  A strategic partnership with a recent technology IPO and a darling of Wall Street launched this start-up. This start-up only lasted 18 months. It was an enlightening failure.

The demise was caused by another emerging technology. This new one promised to be the end-all technical advance. The market stalled as customers waited to see how the new technology would pan out. Customers put their orders on hold or canceled them, and investors lost interest. Unfortunately, they had waited to raise more funding until they reached a critical milestone. They had even turned down funding. The start-up ran out of money.

“In retrospect, one of my big lessons was to never fight the trend. Instead, embrace the trend and find the opportunity within it.” Next lesson was a start-up can never have too much money. Nothing about a start-up goes according to plan. The extra funds will help the company make the necessary transition change because no start-up gets the product right the first time.  Unfortunately, a start-up doesn’t know what and when that transition will take place and can’t be budgeted for in advance. In the early stage of a start-up, funding is a never ending process. Another painful lesson is they were too focused on the product development and should have put more effort into the marketing sooner.

Afterwards Cynthia spent a brief stint as a consultant as a subject matter expert in the very technology that collapsed the previous venture. Soon the market heated up as the promise of the end-all technology faded. The older technology became hot once again.  She founded a bootstrapped company offering a software product version of the technology from the previous start-up. “We actually started with the code base from the failed company and got customers to pay for the remaining product development.” Yet another lesson is that smart and talented people fail because of circumstances beyond their control. We would all like to believe that we are in complete control of our destiny. “The reality is we only control about one-third, another one-third is controlled by the competitors and the remaining is simply a matter of luck.”

Next, Cynthia wanted a short break from start-ups and briefly went to work for a large company. “I thought of it as more of a working vacation.  What was I thinking? I found it was impossible to go back. Yes, it was a vacation, but it was utterly uninteresting. I found it difficult to get up in the morning and be the least bit enthusiastic about work.  I had no tolerance for the work environment anymore.” It was clear that the path of entrepreneur was the only path for her. And to this day, she continues on with her ventures and helps others with their ventures.

“With each and every venture, I continue to learn new lessons.  I continue to make mistakes.  I bring my experience and knowledge to each, but more importantly, it’s my outlook that has changed from the first one. Every new venture will be a different situation, everything will and can go wrong, but it’s just a situation to be managed.  I’ve learned failure is okay. It’s quite liberating once you no longer have a fear of failing; when you learn the consequences are mostly in your mind.  It lets you try new things. If you aren’t worried about failure, you can focus on success. “

One could say that Cynthia has escaped the 9 to 5 job, which by the word “job” means working for someone else. However, that does not mean that she has a short work week or is less stressed. “In fact, I work all the time. My laptop is almost always with me. It never leaves my side. The difference is I define myself by what I do and like what I do. And so opening up my laptop at odd times and in strange places doesn’t seem unnatural. I can’t imagine what entrepreneurs did before mobility gave us the ability to work from anywhere at any time.  The more impact an individual has on the bottom line and success of a company, the more pressure there is on them to perform.  Entrepreneurship is not a relaxing life style. It is more like living La Vida Loca.”

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Cynthia Kocialski is the founder of three tech start-ups companies. In the past 15 years, she has been involved in dozens of start-ups. Cynthia writes the Start-up Entrepreneurs’ Blog www.cynthiakocialski.com Cynthia has written the book, “Out of the Classroom Lessons in Success: How to Prosper Without Being at the Top of the Class.” The book serves up tips, insight, and wisdom to enable young adults and parents of kids to know what it will take to forge a successful career, no matter what their academic achievement.

Two years ago he launched Noisy Planet (www.noisyplanet.net) — an online showcase and music career development service for independent recording artists.  Kevin hopes Noisy Planet will encourage musicians to make more art and will share their stories with the world.  Each artist gets a personalized URL and marketing postcards to promote their music.  Noisy Planet also works with pre-digital musicians who may need analog to digital conversion services.  Now Kevin couldn’t be more satisfied with his lifestyle.  ”Running a company that operates on the cutting edge of the new music industry model has fulfilled my dream of helping talented musicians worldwide to get more out of their music careers”. And while he does need to be available during some normal business hours for conference calls with strategic partners, his operations truly run 24/7.  ”On one hand, that means I can always find work to do day or night. On the flip side, I can choose when and where I want to focus on my business.”

Today Kevin can run Noisy Planet from his Lake Tahoe home early in the morning.  Then he can take off for a few hours of skiing untracked powder during winter months, or hiking and fishing during the summer.  Then he can return to work in the evening or any other time he is inspired.  ”I’m more productive and I have a much greater sense of fulfillment”.   Noisy Planet was recently named “Best Music Business Website 2009″ by the Independent Music Awards run by the publishers of the Musicians Atlas.  ”Smashing my alarm clock is benefiting recording artists everywhere!”

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For me, a 30 minute escape generally involves kayaking.  I’m not a touring or white water person.  I’m perfectly happy on a lake.  Preferably one that is about a mile in diameter and doesn’t allow motorized craft.  I have one favorite spot that is about 10 miles from my house.   I was actually thinking about this while I was on the lake about an hour ago.

For me it’s a multi-sensory experience.  For some people it would be a matter of putting the kayak in water, getting in kayak, paddling around, avoid tipping over, and taking the kayak out of the water.  Having grown up on a farm I have a lot of experience with tractors and other equipment.  Unfortunately, ear protection was never part of that experience.  Now several decades later, large social gatherings means lots of ambient noise that often masks conversations within arms length.  As long as I can isolate sounds I’m fine, but when there is lots of noise it just all blurs together.   Which brings me back to kayaking where often I’m the only person on the lake and I can hear just about anything within a about a mile.

Today I just sat in the middle of the lake over 1000 feet from shore.  To the north a toddler was having a bad day.  To the south two kids were playing ping pong on their porch.   And to the east a bunch of guests were just showing up for a party.   I couldn’t see any of them, but I could hear them all clearly.   In my day to day world, a lot of sounds just get mashed together, but when I’m kayaking I get to take it all in.  If you were were curious the west was completely quiet today, although there are usually a couple of beavers who will slap the water with their tails if you get too close.

Add in a bright setting sun and a gentle breeze and I’m good to go.  It’s not a work out.  It’s a reboot.  And here I am back to work cranking out content focused on my long term escape from the 9 to 5.   For the price of a gallon of gas and 30 minutes, I’m ready to take on the world again.   The recipe that works for you will be different.  Finding it is the fun part.

Such was the genesis of Michelle’s copyrighting business Winning Proof.  She worked feverishly trying to get her copywriting business off the ground and into a self-sustaining mode.  You can see some of her work at Ezinearticles.com/michellehill.

While she thinks a sustainable business is completely doable”…so the six-figure guru’s say…my checkbook says otherwise.”   Michelle has her business weekly/monthly/yearly goals on her bathroom mirror and she takes action steps toward those goals every day. She puts her 25 years of writing experience to good use specializing in sports and fitness writing.  She now works with pro athletes and fitness professionals to increase their success score by putting their best words in forward motion.

For Michelle, escaping the 9 to 5 is about doing what she wants when she wants. Whether it is cooking 5-star meals, power walking, watching football, or working, it needs to fit into her life and personal goals.  “I don’t want to work in an environment where someone else plans my day for me; when to eat, when to leave, and what I can/can’t do on my computer.”   Having three small motivators in the form of grandchildren makes getting her game face on all the more rewarding.  Her escape might be about what is right for Michelle, but she always has the team in mind.

On the morning of May 20th, 2008, Paul got an email from the owners saying that he needed to reallocate responsibilities and decide which of his two people to cut.  ”It came as the final blow to my crumbling morale.  I went home for lunch and my wife met me at the door saying that I had to hear something.  She had been on a conference call with a business coaching company and one of the leaders of the call had said “Your happiness in life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you are willing to live with.”  Well, that was the deciding factor.  I went back to work, divided my responsibilities between my two counter guys and turned in my resignation.”

Initially he joined his wife Dana in her music business Serious Vanity Records.  They are an Independent record label and licensing library.  ”It had always been my dream to work in music and sound design, and now it’s a reality because I was able to take the leap and escape the 9-5.”  Paul and Dana have received numerous awards and rave reviews for their voice-over work.  They have a love for all kinds of music and they library covers all genres.  ”And if we don’t have it… we can make it for you.”

Paul has since expanded into Paul’s Guitar Shop since he has been playing with and modifying guitars on the side for the past 23 years.

Traditional media such as news, TV especially, can be a huge time suck.  If you step back from the TV, paper, etc. do you really need the information that it is giving you?  The answer is probably no.  This is one of the easiest places to reclaim a half hour, an hour or maybe even more per day.

Email is also a huge source of information overload.  People assume that email is an immediate need unlike regular mail which clearly has a wait time associated with it.  People jump on it first thing in the morning, and often feel inclined to read everything.  It’s better to do something else important first thing instead of email.  Also, we tend to find ourselves on lots of email list.  If you don’t read things regularly, why not unsubscribe?

If print media has got you down, why not switch some of it to audio.  Audible.com offers a great selection of audio books.  Itunes collection of podcasts is also another great source of audio information.  What’s more is that you can speed it up without sounding like chipmunks.

Lastly is a change in mindset.  You can either be a consumer or a producer.  If you are like most of us, you spend a lot of time consuming information trying to become an expert.  Chances are you are already there but you don’t realize it.  It’s time to start becoming a producer.

If you are trying to escape the 9-5, your probably needs to escape some of the 5-9 as well.  In order to move from where you are to where you want to be, you need to make room in your life.  A couple of extra cups of caffeine and a few hours less sleep a week aren’t going to get you where you need to be.  You need more – and today is just the day to start getting it.  So here are a few suggestions to give your family about what you want for Father’s Day:

• a clean garage, attic, office, etc.
• a freshly mowed lawn
• filing of office paperwork
• a washed car
• anything that gives you more time in your life

And since this is your one day a year to ask for stuff, go large and ask for this on a regular basis.  If you are going to escape from the 9 to 5, this is going to involve your whole family, so involve them in the escape.   They may not be able to help you build a new company, but they can help you find time to do it.