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Escape in 30 minutes

One of the often overlooked lessons of the 4 hour workweek is the question of what to do with the other 36 hours.  The reality is that most of us are looking for an escape that is not too different from what we are doing now – just on our terms.  Part of the escape mentality is being able to break the patterns that are holding you back, and being able to do activities that help push your reset button.  So until you can actually escape the 9 to 5, maybe you can try a 30 minute escape.

For me, a 30 minute escape generally involves kayaking.  I’m not a touring or white water person.  I’m perfectly happy on a lake.  Preferably one that is about a mile in diameter and doesn’t allow motorized craft.  I have one favorite spot that is about 10 miles from my house.   I was actually thinking about this while I was on the lake about an hour ago.

For me it’s a multi-sensory experience.  For some people it would be a matter of putting the kayak in water, getting in kayak, paddling around, avoid tipping over, and taking the kayak out of the water.  Having grown up on a farm I have a lot of experience with tractors and other equipment.  Unfortunately, ear protection was never part of that experience.  Now several decades later, large social gatherings means lots of ambient noise that often masks conversations within arms length.  As long as I can isolate sounds I’m fine, but when there is lots of noise it just all blurs together.   Which brings me back to kayaking where often I’m the only person on the lake and I can hear just about anything within a about a mile.

Today I just sat in the middle of the lake over 1000 feet from shore.  To the north a toddler was having a bad day.  To the south two kids were playing ping pong on their porch.   And to the east a bunch of guests were just showing up for a party.   I couldn’t see any of them, but I could hear them all clearly.   In my day to day world, a lot of sounds just get mashed together, but when I’m kayaking I get to take it all in.  If you were were curious the west was completely quiet today, although there are usually a couple of beavers who will slap the water with their tails if you get too close.

Add in a bright setting sun and a gentle breeze and I’m good to go.  It’s not a work out.  It’s a reboot.  And here I am back to work cranking out content focused on my long term escape from the 9 to 5.   For the price of a gallon of gas and 30 minutes, I’m ready to take on the world again.   The recipe that works for you will be different.  Finding it is the fun part.

But I’m Over 40

When I was in my twenties I invested in real estate, traveled the world, would go running at midnight, and generally got around 4 hours sleep.  Wine (actually more beer), women and song played a large part of that as well.  You’re at that stage in life where you are past being an invincible teenager, but you have haven’t gotten to the soccer dad, occasional medical procedure, wouldn’t it be nice to sleep in on the weekends stage.  It’s this window of wonder and uncertainty that rock stars are born – or not born.  The Internet is full of them.   Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Shaun Fanning, etc.  And especially in Internet Marketing circles the list of 20 somethings who are raking on 7 figures doing something that sounds almost too easy, continues to grow.  For those of us over 40 who didn’t become a millionaire before age 30, it’s inspiring and frustrating at the same time.  Most of us eased out of that magical time into a little house, mini-van and 2.5 kids without even noticing.

I’d like to think there is still hope.  The key is unlearning bad habits and start identifying ways to reclaim time from your 9 to 5, get the kids to volleyball practice and walk the dog life.  Start identifying those things that you tolerate in your life.  It may be doing yard work, paying bills, etc.  Now start looking for ways to eliminate them.  Hiring your kids to do yard work, setting up electronic payments, etc.  The key is creating space in your life so that you have time for the things that you may have wanted in the first place.  And most importantly, start weening yourself from email.  Do not check email first thing in the morning, and try to schedule times of the day that you check email.  You will find that you recover quite a bit of time in the process.

This is just a start though.  Start thinking about what else you would like to do with your life.  It’s easy to look at some of the rock stars out there and think you missed your chance, but history paints a different picture.  Divinci, Michelangelo, Grandma Moses and Horace Sanders (Mr. KFC) all were well over 40 when they came into prominence.  Also, statistically if you start a business over age 40 your chance of success more than doubles compared to if you started the same business in your 20s.

And the last of these first steps is opening your mind to some of the possibilities out there.  There’s plenty of unlearning to do.  As homework I would recommend The Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss and The Way We’re Working Isn’t Working by Tony Schwartz.  Some people get hung up on the title of Tim’s book but it’s really not about getting your work week down to 4 hours, it’s about what would you do with an extra 36 hours.  More to come.