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what is impossible?

One of the problems with growing up is that you learn what is possible and what is impossible.  What’s worse is that we often put things into one column or the other based on other people’s experiences, or one instance of failure on our part, and we are probably wrong.  A different direction, or a little more effort, and we could have accomplished something that we ended up giving up on.   There also might have been things that we would have tried, that we didn’t because others told us that it was impossible.  Until Roger Bannister broke the 4 minute mile, it was impossible.  Now most world class runners do it with ease.

Step back in time a few years when you hadn’t hit double digits for your age and the world was a different place.  You probably didn’t know what impossible was yet.  Growing up on a farm I had access to a larger version of legos known more commonly as hay bales.  I used to build forts which had multiple rooms, and in some cases were more than one story high.  When the hay was gone I would build elaborate forts out in the woods.  Likewise most kids are able to create something out of nothing and do it effortlessly.  It’s only when we get get older that it becomes hard to start that creative process again.

Most youngsters don’t get their creative endeavors featured on CNN, but one young boy named Caine did recently.  He loved arcades and decided to build his own out of cardboard boxes in the back of his dad’s auto parts shop.  If you have ever had an excuse as to why you didn’t do something, this is proof that it probably was not a good reason.

Caine’s Arcade from Nirvan Mullick on Vimeo.

Renaissance Woman

Lisa is self employed

Most people/companies tend to focus on doing just one thing well, but that is not the path for everyone.  For some of us, we have multiple areas of expertise and talents and a thirst to share them all with the world.  Lisa Montanaro is one of those people.   It is this sense of adventure and drive for reinvention that ultimately led her to create LM Organizing Solutions, LLC (LMOS).

Upon graduation from law school, she practiced employment, labor, education and disability law for 9 ½ years.  Although she had a profound respect for the law, she did not appreciate the way it was practiced in our society.  It became too negative in the hands of those that wanted to use it to fight.  She was trained as a mediator and became a lawyer to help people, but she often felt a huge disconnect between her beliefs and her daily work. “I started to become restless and knew that there were other ways I could share my talents and expertise with people and organizations to improve the world.  I did a lot of soul searching and arrived at the conclusion that I needed to leave the traditional practice of law and become an entrepreneur in order to truly make a difference.”

During that time of career transition, Lisa realized that she had been organizing people’s lives on an “amateur” level her whole life, and that her organizing and coaching skills transcended her work as a lawyer, teacher, mediator, writer, speaker, and performer.

In 2002, Lisa launched LMOS, which serves as the umbrella for her many areas of expertise, and provides a platform to offer a variety of services to clients.  Through LMOS, she is able to offer productivity consulting, success coaching, business strategizing, and professional speaking to individuals and organizations.  “These main focus areas allow me to combine my lifelong passion for creating order with my skills gained as an educator, mediator and performer, and lawyer.  LMOS gives me the ability to enact positive, proactive change.  My clients rely on me for leadership, guidance, support, encouragement, and coaching. “

Lisa considers herself “a multi-passionate entrepreneur”.  “My business is both a profession and a passion”.  She took a leap of faith and created a business that allows her to meld together many different, but related, “callings” at the same time, while helping people live more successful lives and operate more productive and profitable businesses.  The result has been both successful and rewarding.

”Anyone that knows me (or even just meets me) can tell that I love my business and work really hard. But I’m not only a passionate entrepreneur, I am a multi-passionate person” One of the worst mistakes Lisa ever made when she first became an entrepreneur was to “compartmentalize” her life. “It dawned on me a few years ago that I don’t have a “personal life” and a “professional life,” but simply A LIFE. Consequently, I do things when they feel right, which might include writing an article or taking care of client work on a Saturday or Sunday morning, and going on a bike ride, taking a yoga class or heading out with my dogs on a hike on a Wednesday afternoon.” For Lisa, flexibility and freedom are part of what makes being self-employed so glorious. And yet, so many entrepreneurs continue to separate their personal and professional lives in ways that actually work to avoid any semblance of balance.
Lisa likes to mix things up and see how it feels. “I try to tap into my natural energy flow and rhythm so that I can do tasks when I am in top form, and not when I am  “supposed” to”. This is easier said than done, and it is a constant battle to have the freedom and flexibility so many entrepreneurs crave. She still has to function within the 9-5 world we live in, and be able to serve her clients at a time when it is convenient for them. Lisa tries not to get caught up in the compartmentalization that can cause entrepreneurs to overwork and resent their business. She makes a conscious effort to cultivate her hobbies and passions. Not only does it help her to feel rejuvenated, but it also makes her a better and more well rounded entrepreneur because of her non-work related activities.

For example, Lisa loves to travel and explore new cultures. This could be viewed as only a personal activity. And yet, her travel and exploration of other cultures infiltrates her work in surprising and refreshing ways. “I sometimes find myself “studying” the ways of other cultures and comparing them to Americans in terms of productivity, work-life balance, attitudes on business, goal setting, etc. This makes me a better productivity consultant, success coach, business strategist, speaker and writer for sure!” Even a simple personal activity like taking a hike or bike ride can fill Lisa with wonderful new ideas to write or speak about, help her work through a client issue that she is helping him or her with, or clear her mind to make space to create new programs and products.

The bottom line is that being an entrepreneur affords Lisa the opportunity to benefit from a free flow of ideas, activities and use of time that feels authentic and allows her to be the best business owner and person she can be.

Lisa says that her biggest lesson learned was to “Feel the fear and do it anyway” or “Jump … and the net shall appear.” The main “fears” were the following:

- Financial
- Perception of friends and family
- Hadn’t paid for student loans yet
- Good at being a lawyer, so why turn back on it?
- If being an entrepreneur didn’t work, could I go back?

Lisa overcame these fears in numerous ways.

She paid off my student loans so I would no longer owe money for my law degree. She also saved money and put it aside to help build her business and have a draw during the first year.

She stopped worrying about what others’ thought about her leaving the law. Many lawyer friends took it personally, when it was not about them at all. Lisa wasn’t running away from the law, she was running towards a great new career that she was eager to explore. “Once I stopped worrying about what others’ thought and gave myself permission to fully embrace my change, my mindset shifted and people stopped questioning my career change as much. I must have projected a much more confident decision. People can smell fear a mile away! :-)

Lisa also realized that while she was great at being a lawyer, that didn’t mean she had to stay in the field. She had given it 9 years of full time practice and it was okay to leave it behind to explore other options. Lisa also came to the realization that she would be taking her legal training and education with her to any new career path, as the knowledge would influence everything else she did.

Lastly, Lisa decided to stop worrying about what would happen if she did not “make it” as an entrepreneur. “I knew that I needed a positive attitude to make it work, and in the worse case scenario, if it did not, I could always do something else, including going back to law if I so chose.”

So getting over the fear was a combination or trusting herself, shifting her mindset, and concrete research and planning.”

Lisa is happy to report that she is now in her 10th year of business as a successful entrepreneur!

Lisa took her business seriously from the start! “I was so excited to be doing something I love and no longer practicing law that I think I did not see myself as a “real” entrepreneur early on”. As time progressed and Lisa realized she was a “real” business owner, she started implementing business systems and that made a huge difference. It also caused an important mindset shift where she started seeing herself as an entrepreneur and, therefore, so did others. “We often start our businesses because we love doing the technical skill, but that is not enough. We are also a business owner. I wish I had seen that from the beginning as I would have taken myself much more seriously.”

Lisa’s recommendation to new business owners is to treat your business as a “real” business from the beginning. Put all of the operational procedures in place that you need to in order to have the business run like a well-oiled machine. Obtain proper insurance coverage, create a business structure that matches your needs, and protect yourself and your business through smart use of intellectual property, such as trademark and copyright. Start by “blueprinting” your business little by little and, over time, you will have an operations manual and proper protections in place so that the business runs and grows like a powerhouse!

Lisa plans to continue to be locally active, but globally engaged. She is offering her coaching, consulting and speaking services virtually and in person around the United States and soon, the world. “My mission is to marry my passions with my profits”.  She is making a conscious choice to step into a bigger purpose to help people around the world.  This is a personal decision to take her business to the next level to reach a wider audience, establish a strong online presence, and to do it without any full time employees.

Primary URL: http://www.lmorganizingsolutions.com

Lisa’s recommended reading:

  • Finding Your North Star by Martha Beck
  • Joyfully Jobless by Barbara Winter
  • Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow by Marsha Sinetar
  • The E-Myth Revisited by Michael Gerber
  • The Million-Dollar Consultant by Alan Weiss.

 

Super Bowl

I probably should preface this by saying I’m not a big football fan to start with.    I generally don’t get the concept of watching sports on TV, but I’m more than willing to take in a game live of just about any sport.  There is something just a little bit more real about the experience when you are there.  I would say that probably applies to most things.  So what does the Super Bowl have to do with escaping the 9 to 5?

I heard a statistic on the radio the other day that caught my attention.  During the game, the ball will only be in motion for somewhere between 12 and 14 minutes.   So what is going on for the other 9 plus hours?  First we have the pregame show which is 5 hours long.  Then there is the game itself divided by multiple $3 million dollar 30 second commercials.  And who can forget the half time show.  There’s another 30 minutes.  And for good measure there’s another 30 minutes tacked on to the programming calendar just in case.  The fact that they haven’t needed it in 46 years doesn’t stop network executives from planning for the inevitable (Just in case your DVR stops before the end of the game).  Last year 111 million people watched the Super Bowl making it the single most watched television program in history.  Over 1/3 of Americans spend almost the equivalent a working day each year watching this single event.

Yes – anyone who loves football will counter “but it’s the Superbowl!”.  It’s almost un-American not to watch it.  Much like the world cup in the rest of the world.  It’s not quite the event that the cricket world cup is in certain parts of the world, but for those of us in North America, it is “the” sporting event of the year.  Getting back to my 12 to 14 minute statistic, the Superbowl has been stretched into something deliberately intended to suck up your attention for the purpose of advertising.   I don’t remember how long the Superbowl was on TV in the 1960s by I’m guessing it was far less than nine and a half hours.  It’s just one more example of how things in today’s society expand based on someone else’s agenda. Am I going to watch the Superbowl?  Yes.  Am I going to do on the network’s timeline?  No thanks to our DVR.  I’m hoping to get through the whole game in about an hour.  If you are going to escape the 9 to 5,  you have to be able to set your own agenda.

Time To Flinch

The Flinch

If you are still getting used to that Kindle you got for Christmas, here is your chance to practice downloading books.  For anyone planning their escape from the 9 to 5 or just anyone at all,  there is a must read book - The Flinch.  It’s absolutely free, but I’m sure you will find it has immense value in your life.   The Flinch is about that fear based reaction that all of us have when faced with situations that we are afraid of.  What would be a 2 minute conversation for most people is dissected in great deal, giving a new level of clarity to the seemingly unchangeable reactions we have to our world.  If you have hit the wall, are looking for alternatives, or just want a good read, The Flinch lets you explore how you deal with the world, and is destined to change it in the process.

Feed your dreams

Marc MatsumotoMarc Matsumoto has held different jobs in in the tech space for the past 15 years, and despite going from design to engineering to marketing, he couldnt find a job that he looked forward to waking up to. “I began to think that the idea of enjoying work was a myth. That is until I was laid off in 2009. ”

While Marc was looking for a job along with 13% of America that year, he also got to spend a lot of time working on his personal hobby: a food blog called NoRecipes.com.  His site sounds like a food contradiction, but it is really about the traditions, techniques and ingredients of a particular dish and not an exact combination of measurements.   “I met lots of interesting folks through the blog including some people who made a living off their blogs and related lines of business. As my blog grew I felt like Id finally found that dream job in beijing. The problem was, it was still too early and having lived off savings in New York City for nearly a year, I decided to take a full time job towards the end of the year”.

Last year he reached the point where he was turning down food writing and photography gigs because there simple wasn’t enough hours in the day to do the regular 9 to 5 and take on all the leads he had gotten through the blog. “The time felt right, I quit my jobs in beijing, and there are no regrets so far”.  It was a tough leap of faith given he still wasn’t getting enough business to pay all the bills, but Marc says, “it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made”.

Marc thinks escaping a 9 to 5 is less about taking classes or reading books and more about finding that passion that drives you to do whatever it takes to make it work.  He now enjoys the freedom to work from where ever he is in the world.  His food blog has taken him all over the world and has spawned a second web site http://wanderingcook.com.  Marc is engaging in what he calls a “delicious adventure, tasting his way around the world”.   Anthony Bourdain may have some competition on the horizon.

One of Marc’s challenges in escaping the 9 to 5 is that he doesn’t see himself as a salesman.  ”I’ve never enjoyed sales, but part of freelancing is selling your services. One of the things I’ve learned is that leads come from the most unexpected places”. As a writer he often get pitched products and services to try by marketing agencies. They’re often cookie cutter press releases and can become tiresome. One day he got a little fed up with the generic pitches and tried pitching the services back at the agency that sent the email. That email turned into a paying gig.

Marc cautions potential escapees to not sell themselves short.  This was a tough lesson for him when he first left the corporate world.  ”When I first started out I was up till 3am every morning because I took every job that came my way regardless of how low the wage was”. It didn’t leave me much time to enjoy his new found freedom and it took time and focus away from projects that actually paid a descent wage. “It’s hard to say no to work especially at first, but it’s important to know when to start saying no”.

Marc summarizes his approach to life  as “seizing the day”  (even if it is an overused phrase).  ”So many of us spend days that turn into months that turn into years at jobs we’re not passionate about dreaming about someday going off on our own. During that time, life happens and we can never quite get to a place where we’re comfortable leaving a stable job to follow a dream. I think the key to leaving a 9 to 5 is to stop chasing the dream and start living it. It may be hard at first, the obstacles may even seem unsurmoutable, but if you dedicate yourself to it, and live for today, tomorrow always seems to work itself out”.  Sounds like a perfect recipe to me.

Check out Marc’s adventures at:

http://norecipes.com
http://wanderingcook.com
Twitter: @norecipes